Voddie Baucham
I do not approach a person on the basis of a specific sin that he or she needs to quit but on the basis of a nature that needs to be changed.

Poor souls are apt to think that all those whom they read or hear of to be gone to heaven, went there because they were so good and holy. Yet not one of them, not any one that is now in heaven (Jesus Christ alone excepted), did ever come there any other way but by forgiveness of sins.
John Owen